When don’t I have something to say?

Here are today’s words of wisdom from Tiff. Take it with a grain of salt and a shot of tequila.

If you like something, love something, or just started getting interested in something then keep doing it. Do not stop because other people tell you it’s weird, do not stop because other people say they don’t like it, and don’t stop because of other people.

Things that bring you joy and happiness are for you, not other people.

I have several interests in my life where I have 0 people in real life who share the same interest. Do I stop enjoying them, no. Will I bring them up in conversation with friends, sometimes, not often.

Will I stop being friends with other people because they don’t share that interest, also no. I will 100% stop being friends and cut people out of my life if they start making fun of me or being rude about my interest.

I have 0 interest in Amazing Race, Bachelorette, wine, 90 Day Fiancé, guns, sports of any kind, and I despise live concerts in every way. However, I have several friends who love all those things, it doesn’t mean I’ll tell them their weird. I’ll say “not my thing, I’ll listen to you as much as I can” and we move on.

If people make rude comments about your interests — that’s on them for being too insecure with their interests. Brush it off, and keep being interested.

Again, things that bring you joy and happiness are for you, not other people.

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Check out a previous post Day 10: Something I HAVE To Say.